How would your approach to trauma change if you understood that lots of people experience it, and when you actually experience a traumatic event… you have a lot in common with them?
What if the overwhelming majority of the traumatic experience is very similar?
What if all these people around you, who have gone through a traumatic event, actually COULD understand you?
What if, because you had so much in common, you could learn from each other and help each other?
Hmmmmmmm.